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Attn: LuchAAA |
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Posted by JayZeeBMT on Fri Jun 23 06:36:52 2017 What do you think of this?Under North Carolina law, a woman cannot revoke consent, once sex has begun. |
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Posted by LuchAAA on Fri Jun 23 06:53:48 2017, in response to Attn: LuchAAA, posted by JayZeeBMT on Fri Jun 23 06:36:52 2017. I think if the guy is being a dick and starts rough stuff like slapping, choking, hair pulling, dirty talk, etc.......and she says stop, then he should stop. |
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Posted by JayZeeBMT on Fri Jun 23 06:56:42 2017, in response to Re: Attn: LuchAAA, posted by LuchAAA on Fri Jun 23 06:53:48 2017. Do you think the law should be changed? |
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Re: Attn: LuchAAA |
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Posted by R2ChinaTown on Fri Jun 23 08:42:38 2017, in response to Re: Attn: LuchAAA, posted by JayZeeBMT on Fri Jun 23 06:56:42 2017. How would this impact 2 gay people having a romp? |
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Re: Attn: LuchAAA |
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Posted by Catfish 44 on Fri Jun 23 08:46:29 2017, in response to Re: Attn: LuchAAA, posted by R2ChinaTown on Fri Jun 23 08:42:38 2017. It wouldn't. |
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Re: Attn: LuchAAA |
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Posted by SLRT on Fri Jun 23 10:04:46 2017, in response to Attn: LuchAAA, posted by JayZeeBMT on Fri Jun 23 06:36:52 2017. From the article: But, she told Fayetteville police, when the sex turned violent, she told the man to stop. He didn’t listen.Keyword is violent. She consented to sex, not to assault. |
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Re: Attn: LuchAAA |
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Posted by JayZeeBMT on Fri Jun 23 10:12:56 2017, in response to Re: Attn: LuchAAA, posted by SLRT on Fri Jun 23 10:04:46 2017. That's true. However, the article also notes that NC courts have held that once consent to sex is given, it's irrevocable. Violence during sex is another issue altogether, and not as clear-cut as it might ordinarily appear. For example, certain types of sexual play involve violence. Of course, this wasn't what happened with the woman in question, hence the assault charge. |
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Re: Attn: LuchAAA |
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Posted by SLRT on Fri Jun 23 10:31:23 2017, in response to Re: Attn: LuchAAA, posted by JayZeeBMT on Fri Jun 23 10:12:56 2017. For example, certain types of sexual play involve violence.Quite so but, if there's a consent to a romantic evening and you unexpectedly are taken into a room with whips and chains and a brawny gentleman with a leather mask and branding iron on hot coals, I would guess the original consent would need updating. |
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Posted by Olog-hai on Fri Jun 23 10:58:10 2017, in response to Attn: LuchAAA, posted by JayZeeBMT on Fri Jun 23 06:36:52 2017. These "ATTN:" threads as if they're emails are like the "Guess the location" threads. |
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Re: Attn: LuchAAA |
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Posted by JayZeeBMT on Fri Jun 23 11:04:48 2017, in response to Re: Attn: Nobody, posted by Olog-hai on Fri Jun 23 10:58:10 2017. Why do you persist in hijacking threads? |
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Re: Attn: LuchAAA |
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Posted by Charles G on Fri Jun 23 11:46:46 2017, in response to Re: Attn: LuchAAA, posted by JayZeeBMT on Fri Jun 23 10:12:56 2017. I'm really glad that I'm not "playing the field" in today's world. People aren't always expressive in legally clear terms during sexual activity.Women are encouraged to be in touch with their sexuality and make their desires known during sex. (Cool!). But when she says "Don't do that", the guy has to figure out whether she wants him to do something differently to enhance her experience or whether he is now raping her (Less cool!). While such lack of clarity might mean a conviction unlikely, the process of getting to such a conclusion is hardly amusing (see Rikers thread, among many other reasons). |
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Posted by SLRT on Fri Jun 23 12:03:18 2017, in response to Re: Attn: LuchAAA, posted by Charles G on Fri Jun 23 11:46:46 2017. Usually the partners know what they expect but...A woman wrote in Quora that her boyfriend came home, decided it would be fun to do the Tarzan and Jane thing and threw her down on the bed. The woman (who was writing) was all for it, but her cat freaked and jumped on his head, claws extended. His bald head... |
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Re: Attn: Jenny Anydots |
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Posted by Olog-hai on Fri Jun 23 12:21:00 2017, in response to Re: Attn: LuchAAA, posted by SLRT on Fri Jun 23 12:03:18 2017. Makes no difference if you have hair. Hair does not shield your cranium from claws. You just don't get to see the scars after the bleeding stops. |
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Re: Attn: Jenny Anydots |
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Posted by SLRT on Fri Jun 23 12:49:36 2017, in response to Re: Attn: Jenny Anydots, posted by Olog-hai on Fri Jun 23 12:21:00 2017. You just don't get to see the scars after the bleeding stops.That's a benefit. |
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Re: Attn: Jenny Anydots |
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Posted by Olog-hai on Fri Jun 23 12:50:15 2017, in response to Re: Attn: Jenny Anydots, posted by SLRT on Fri Jun 23 12:49:36 2017. Harder to put Neosporin Pain Relief on the cranium with hair. |
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Re: Attn: LuchAAA |
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Posted by Dave on Fri Jun 23 15:07:14 2017, in response to Re: Attn: LuchAAA, posted by SLRT on Fri Jun 23 12:03:18 2017. Chrome dome! |
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