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Posted by LuchAAA on Mon Jul 6 22:32:21 2026 I wish I knew about narcissism in 1987. |
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Posted by terRAPIN station on Tue Jul 7 07:57:46 2026, in response to Me ex-girlfriend was narcissistic, posted by LuchAAA on Mon Jul 6 22:32:21 2026. Pics or it didn’t happen. |
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Posted by TRAIN DUDE on Tue Jul 7 09:49:19 2026, in response to Me ex-girlfriend was narcissistic, posted by LuchAAA on Mon Jul 6 22:32:21 2026. Most women go through a period of narcissism in their early life as they gain awareness of the power of the pussy. Fortunately most outgrow that before their 30s. Some don't. |
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Posted by LuchAAA on Tue Jul 7 10:23:47 2026, in response to Re: Me ex-girlfriend was narcissistic, posted by terRAPIN station on Tue Jul 7 07:57:46 2026. I'm ashamed. |
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Posted by LuchAAA on Tue Jul 7 10:24:43 2026, in response to Re: Me ex-girlfriend was narcissistic, posted by TRAIN DUDE on Tue Jul 7 09:49:19 2026. She is married with kids now. I don't think narcissism goes away. It gets worse. Especially with grandiose, malignant narcissists. |
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Posted by Olog-hai on Tue Jul 7 12:12:12 2026, in response to Re: Me ex-girlfriend was narcissistic, posted by terRAPIN station on Tue Jul 7 07:57:46 2026. pwnt.Never mind the deliberate Irish accent in the title. |
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Posted by Catfish 44 on Wed Jul 8 01:00:17 2026, in response to Me ex-girlfriend was narcissistic, posted by LuchAAA on Mon Jul 6 22:32:21 2026. 39 years ago? |
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Posted by LuchAAA on Wed Jul 8 01:22:09 2026, in response to Re: Me ex-girlfriend was narcissistic, posted by Catfish 44 on Wed Jul 8 01:00:17 2026. We dated in 1989 but if I knew about narcissists by 1987 things would be different.Unrelated to the narcissistic ex, I really should've eaten more eggs, bacon, and Carvel starting in 1987 or 1988. |
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Posted by Olog-hai on Wed Jul 8 01:40:59 2026, in response to Re: Me ex-girlfriend was narcissistic, posted by LuchAAA on Wed Jul 8 01:22:09 2026. if I knew about narcissists by 1987 things would be differentI learned about narcissism before high school, #37. What kind of edumacashun did you have? |
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Posted by LuchAAA on Wed Jul 8 02:18:06 2026, in response to Re: Me ex-girlfriend was narcissistic, posted by Catfish 44 on Wed Jul 8 01:00:17 2026. Oh, another girl I know, who I went out with briefly in my early 20's is claiming to be autistic. Level one.I think she is narcissistic. She went to Catholic school. She has the narcissistic smirk. She spent the best years of her life going to bars in Queens, parties, etc...... |
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Posted by BILLBKLYN on Wed Jul 8 09:47:00 2026, in response to Re: Me ex-girlfriend was narcissistic, posted by LuchAAA on Wed Jul 8 02:18:06 2026. Is she Irish Catholic? Or maybe Polish? |
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Posted by TRAIN DUDE on Wed Jul 8 09:54:54 2026, in response to Re: Me ex-girlfriend was narcissistic, posted by BILLBKLYN on Wed Jul 8 09:47:00 2026. "Hostin was born on October 20, 1968, in New York City to a Puerto Rican mother, Rosa Beza, and an African American father, William Cummings." |
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Posted by LuchAAA on Wed Jul 8 12:12:03 2026, in response to Re: Me ex-girlfriend was narcissistic, posted by BILLBKLYN on Wed Jul 8 09:47:00 2026. No.Half Italian, half Austrian. |
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Posted by TRAIN DUDE on Wed Jul 8 12:56:16 2026, in response to Re: Me ex-girlfriend was narcissistic, posted by LuchAAA on Wed Jul 8 12:12:03 2026. Which half |
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Posted by BILLBKLYN on Wed Jul 8 14:00:46 2026, in response to Re: Me ex-girlfriend was narcissistic, posted by TRAIN DUDE on Wed Jul 8 09:54:54 2026. I meant the chick that Luch mentioned |
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Posted by BILLBKLYN on Wed Jul 8 14:01:24 2026, in response to Re: Me ex-girlfriend was narcissistic, posted by LuchAAA on Wed Jul 8 12:12:03 2026. Austrian....interesting. Never knew one IRL |
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Posted by LuchAAA on Wed Jul 8 14:07:08 2026, in response to Re: Me ex-girlfriend was narcissistic, posted by BILLBKLYN on Wed Jul 8 14:01:24 2026. There were some Austrians around the Ridgewood Queens area.It was always a neighborhood where immigrants felt comfortable and Austrians speak German and eat German food so they definitely liked the area. |
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Posted by Olog-hai on Wed Jul 8 14:08:50 2026, in response to Re: Me ex-girlfriend was narcissistic, posted by BILLBKLYN on Wed Jul 8 14:00:46 2026. She's make-believe. |
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Posted by TRAIN DUDE on Wed Jul 8 18:07:36 2026, in response to Re: Me ex-girlfriend was narcissistic, posted by LuchAAA on Wed Jul 8 14:07:08 2026. Gotta tell you, this thread caused me to dredge up some sad memories. From 1968 until 1972 i had a girlfriend who was getting counseling for what I now see as narcissism . I was well rid of her until I saw "The Taking of Pelham 123". The young co-ed hostage with the long hair, portrayed by Lucy Saroyan, was identical "twin" of my ex. In any event we went our seperate ways but sadly I saw a post of a facebook page from our old neighborhood. Apparently she married, had 2 daughters and then died a skow death due to MS. |
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Posted by LuchAAA on Wed Jul 8 18:23:44 2026, in response to Re: Me ex-girlfriend was narcissistic, posted by TRAIN DUDE on Wed Jul 8 18:07:36 2026. What exactly was narcissistic about your ex?My ex infantilized me. Talked down to me. On a scale from 1-to-10 I was a 7 or 7.5 while she was no more than a 4. This is a very autistic trait. Dating a woman who isn't your "looksmatch". She was very communal, which is another narc trait. She saw herself as superior but is fucking chubby now. She liked jobs like cashier then bank teller until becoming a court clerk. All jobs narcs like. Especially the court job. |
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Posted by LuchAAA on Wed Jul 8 18:27:57 2026, in response to Me ex-girlfriend was narcissistic, posted by LuchAAA on Mon Jul 6 22:32:21 2026. The following handles are narcissistic,Dand Catfish (Catholic school) Bill from Maspeth bingbong Edwards! Olog-hai Dan Ron in Bayside Fred G RPanse Osmosis Jones Salaam BILLBKLYN (various reasons) Jeff Rosen cortelyounext clearaspect A list of empaths might drop later. |
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Posted by LuchAAA on Wed Jul 8 19:00:17 2026, in response to Me ex-girlfriend was narcissistic, posted by LuchAAA on Mon Jul 6 22:32:21 2026. I'd also say, people with no tattoos now have to explain themselves to people who do.I wonder what relationship this has to narcissism? |
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Posted by Train Dude on Wed Jul 8 19:34:51 2026, in response to Re: Me ex-girlfriend was narcissistic, posted by LuchAAA on Wed Jul 8 18:23:44 2026. She was hateful towards her parents which didn't bother me because I hated them too. She was all about herself and was slutty. Nome the less, she didn't deserve her end. |
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Posted by Olog-hai on Wed Jul 8 21:24:36 2026, in response to Re: Me ex-girlfriend was narcissistic, posted by LuchAAA on Wed Jul 8 18:23:44 2026. Do you just live online, #37? "Narc" is short for "narcotics officer". Yes, I know that uneducated people are trying to make it an abbreviation for "narcissist" now, but the line has to be drawn somewhere. |
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Posted by Olog-hai on Wed Jul 8 22:09:40 2026, in response to Re: Me ex-girlfriend was narcissistic, posted by LuchAAA on Wed Jul 8 19:00:17 2026. I'd also say, people with no tattoos now have to explain themselves to people who doYou can't even stay on topic in your own thread, #37. Look up Leviticus 19:28. |
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Posted by terRAPIN station on Thu Jul 9 00:52:32 2026, in response to Re: Me ex-girlfriend was narcissistic, posted by LuchAAA on Tue Jul 7 10:23:47 2026. Let us be the judge of that. |
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Posted by Catfish 44 on Thu Jul 9 01:03:54 2026, in response to Re: Me ex-girlfriend was narcissistic, posted by LuchAAA on Wed Jul 8 18:27:57 2026. Offff Madone |
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Posted by LuchAAA on Thu Jul 9 01:48:39 2026, in response to Re: Me ex-girlfriend was narcissistic, posted by Catfish 44 on Thu Jul 9 01:03:54 2026. I forgot a few names. |
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Posted by Olog-hai on Thu Jul 9 03:08:26 2026, in response to Re: Me ex-girlfriend was narcissistic, posted by BILLBKLYN on Wed Jul 8 09:47:00 2026. You couldn't help yourself. |
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Posted by Olog-hai on Thu Jul 9 03:08:29 2026, in response to Re: Me ex-girlfriend was narcissistic, posted by BILLBKLYN on Wed Jul 8 09:47:00 2026. You couldn't help yourself. |
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Posted by cortelyounext on Thu Jul 9 08:36:11 2026, in response to Re: Me ex-girlfriend was narcissistic, posted by LuchAAA on Thu Jul 9 01:48:39 2026. I forgot a few names.You most certainly did, the checkmatechamp13 for one. That guy has issues with me, and I, with him. I am not looking for any trouble but he ever comes back here things are going to escalate to the point of no return, that much I do know. Discretion is the better part of valor. You also included a few names that do not belong with the most glaring being the mysterious Osmosis Jones. You can fault said individual for any number of quote things close quote but being a narcissist is not one of those. Do better, and thanks. |
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Posted by BILLBKLYN on Thu Jul 9 12:40:31 2026, in response to Re: Me ex-girlfriend was narcissistic, posted by TRAIN DUDE on Wed Jul 8 18:07:36 2026. That sucks. Sorry to hear that. |
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Posted by BILLBKLYN on Thu Jul 9 12:52:54 2026, in response to Re: Me ex-girlfriend was narcissistic, posted by LuchAAA on Wed Jul 8 18:27:57 2026. Let me guess why I'm a narcissist:1. Catholic school 2 Tall 3. Full head of long hair 4. Married 5. Children 6. Grandchildren 7 Motorcyxle license (no ride at the moment, those days may be over) 8. Jeep Rubicon 9 My former police job 10. Alcohol! |
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Posted by BILLBKLYN on Thu Jul 9 13:13:52 2026, in response to Re: Me ex-girlfriend was narcissistic?, posted by Olog-hai on Thu Jul 9 03:08:26 2026. Gotta have humor! |
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Posted by LuchAAA on Thu Jul 9 14:19:28 2026, in response to Re: Me ex-girlfriend was narcissistic, posted by BILLBKLYN on Thu Jul 9 12:52:54 2026. Good list.Yes, it seems you display very narcissistic traits. I had an argument with a beautiful Ukrainian woman about narcissism. I told her my Catholic school theory and she shot it down because her mother was a narc and they didn't have religion in the Soviet Union. Anyway, the Catholic school kids I know are very narcissistic. |
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Posted by BILLBKLYN on Thu Jul 9 15:04:38 2026, in response to Re: Me ex-girlfriend was narcissistic, posted by LuchAAA on Thu Jul 9 14:19:28 2026. Did I miss anything?Oh yeah, tall! |
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Posted by BILLBKLYN on Thu Jul 9 15:05:00 2026, in response to Re: Me ex-girlfriend was narcissistic, posted by BILLBKLYN on Thu Jul 9 15:04:38 2026. Oops, that was #2 |
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Posted by LuchAAA on Thu Jul 9 15:10:45 2026, in response to Re: Me ex-girlfriend was narcissistic, posted by BILLBKLYN on Thu Jul 9 15:05:00 2026. I think you covered the bases.You're definitely on the spectrum of narcissism but I don't think you have NPD or narcissistic personality disorder like, Nilet Terrapin Larry Fred G Olog-narc Amanda Catfish salaam Edwards! RPanse Railman ENYard Bill from Maspeth elkeeper Bill Newkirk zac cortelyounext clearaspect Pelham Bay Dave |
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Posted by BILLBKLYN on Thu Jul 9 16:14:37 2026, in response to Re: Me ex-girlfriend was narcissistic, posted by LuchAAA on Thu Jul 9 15:10:45 2026. Thanks,I guess! |
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Posted by Catfish 44 on Thu Jul 9 23:45:23 2026, in response to Re: Me ex-girlfriend was narcissistic?, posted by Olog-hai on Thu Jul 9 03:08:26 2026. Maybe it was irresistible? |
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Posted by rkba on Fri Jul 10 07:17:40 2026, in response to Re: Me ex-girlfriend was narcissistic?, posted by Catfish 44 on Thu Jul 9 23:45:23 2026. it's true: pussy could sink a battleship. |
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Posted by Catfish 44 on Fri Jul 10 23:41:40 2026, in response to Re: Me ex-girlfriend was narcissistic, posted by LuchAAA on Thu Jul 9 15:10:45 2026. What? |
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Posted by LuchAAA on Sat Jul 11 00:24:25 2026, in response to Re: Me ex-girlfriend was narcissistic, posted by Catfish 44 on Fri Jul 10 23:41:40 2026. You're definitely on the Spectrum of narcissism.You check too many boxes. |
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Posted by Olog-hai on Sat Jul 11 00:36:48 2026, in response to Re: Me ex-girlfriend was narcissistic, posted by LuchAAA on Thu Jul 9 15:10:45 2026. You got Fred, sdrawde and Nilet correct, plus a couple of others; you are completely slipping over most of the rest, #37. |
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Posted by Olog-hai on Sat Jul 11 00:36:48 2026, in response to Re: Me ex-girlfriend was narcissistic, posted by LuchAAA on Thu Jul 9 15:10:45 2026. You got Fred, sdrawde and Nilet correct, plus a couple of others; you are completely slipping over most of the rest, #37. |
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Posted by Catfish 44 on Sat Jul 11 00:43:22 2026, in response to Re: Me ex-girlfriend was narcissistic?, posted by rkba on Fri Jul 10 07:17:40 2026. A cunt hair could sink a battleship |
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Posted by Catfish 44 on Sat Jul 11 12:59:08 2026, in response to Re: Me ex-girlfriend was narcissistic, posted by LuchAAA on Sat Jul 11 00:24:25 2026. Omg |
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Posted by LuchAAA on Sat Jul 11 14:55:30 2026, in response to Re: Me ex-girlfriend was narcissistic, posted by Catfish 44 on Sat Jul 11 12:59:08 2026. I agree.I can't believe I left so many obvious names off the List. Fisk Ave Jim. Dire Dan Amanda As for you, I believe we'll see each other on the NYTM Holiday Train in December. |
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Posted by Catfish 44 on Sat Jul 11 16:27:22 2026, in response to Re: Me ex-girlfriend was narcissistic, posted by LuchAAA on Sat Jul 11 14:55:30 2026. If you tell me you’re going I’ll come out for the train. |
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Posted by BILLBKLYN on Sat Jul 11 16:30:17 2026, in response to Re: Me ex-girlfriend was narcissistic, posted by Catfish 44 on Sat Jul 11 16:27:22 2026. I may even go this year, although it's the same trip as always |
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